168 Ways To Communicate Better Now Plus Two – 84 – 85 – 86

84.  Live with a purpose.

It will give your life meaning.

It will give your life focus.

It will keep down boredom.

You will be a more interesting person. 

 85.  Love.

Make love a goal.

Love God.

Love yourself.

Love others.  

86. Make new friends.

They bring joy.

They bring new interests.

They bring new knowledge.

They bring their friends.

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Thankful Thursday – Debra Bankston

On this Thankful Thursday, I am grateful for the gifts that Debra Bankston brings to my life. I first met her at the national convention of the American Speech/Language and Hearing Association. She was finishing her Master’s degree from Memphis State and I was seeking a speech language pathologist to come to Charleston. I had been conducting interviews all day. When Debra showed up, I knew my search was over. I could not have found a better person for the position. She completed her undergraduate degree at Louisiana Tech University. She turned out to be a fantastic staff member, a wonderful friend, and a great community worker. She worked part-time as the Christian Education Director at John Wesley Methodist Church. When she decided to leave Charleston for Texas, she invited me to come out to Marshall to help her set-up her private practice. She married Tom and then taught many years at Stephen F. Austin State University where she also served as the director of the Speech and Hearing Center. Emily came to grace their lives and life took on even more meaning. Debra was my son Michael’s first crush. He was in middle school and absolutely smitten with her. May is Better Speech and Hearing Month and Debra Wimberley Bankston is a remarkable representative of this profession. On this Thankful Thursday, I am blessed by the many joys that Debra Bankston brings to my life.

Thankful Thursday is a day set aside to recognize the importance of someone to our lives and to let her or him know of our gratitude. Develop an attitude of gratitude. Say Something Nice; Be a Lifter. You will be glad that you did.

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168 Ways To Communicate Better Now Plus Two – 81 – 82 – 83

81. Let go of bitterness.

Bitterness will ruin your life.

Bitterness is contagious.

Bitterness won’t solve the problem.

Bitterness will hold you hostage. 

 82. Lighten up.

Life is not that serious.

No one else cares.

You ’11 live longer and be healthier.

Relax and enjoy.

 83.   Listen.

You will gain insight.

You will gain knowledge.

You will make friends.

You will be remembered.

You will be unique.

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Thankful Thursday – Kay (Kathyrn) Richards

On this Thankful Thursday, I am grateful for the gifts that Kay Richards brings to my life. Kay was a standout speech/language pathologist at the Charleston Speech and Hearing Center and later in Rochester, New York. She eventually migrated to Texas after retirement and the death of her husband. We kept in touch at our national conventions and then by letter. Kay and I pioneered the first courses at the Citadel in speech/language pathology when the South Carolina Department of Education needed a crash program. In Texas, Kay became an expert in technology for those who could not speak without such assistance. She teaches workshops all over the country. May is Better Hearing and Speech Month and Kay is a great poster person for the celebration. She is active in her church and community, especially the Assistance League, singing, and playing bridge. She is a grandmother that is actively involved in the lives of her grandchildren. She travels the world. On this Thankful Thursday, I am blessed by the gifts that Kay Richards brings to my life.

Thankful Thursday is a day set apart to recognize the importance of someone to our lives and to let her or him know of our gratitude. Develop an attitude of gratitude. Say Something Nice; Be a Lifter. You will be glad that you did.

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