Thankful Thursday – Dr. Don Gilliland

On this Thankful Thursday, I am grateful for the gifts that Don Gilliland brings to my life. Don is my nephew. He is the son of Joe and the late Joan Gilliland. Joan and my late wife, Liz, were sisters. Don completed his Ph.D. in creative writing at the University of Alabama. He is an extremely creative poet and a gifted flutist. He is a member of the Red River Boys and often plays solos in church. He has published a great many of his poems in various poetry reviews. When Don and my son, Michael, were young they spent many of their summers together either in Tullahoma, Tennessee or Charleston. The two families exchanged prisoners many weekends in Commerce, Georgia. Those were fun days for everyone. Don graduated from Maryville College and the Emory University Law School. He spent several years as a lawyer for the Internal Revenue Service. Don is also a NASCAR fan. How that works in, I don’t really know. Don is a wonderful father to daughter, Charlotte. Charlotte will be off to college in the fall. On this Thankful Thursday, I am grateful for the gifts that Don Gilliland brings to my life.

Thankful Thursday is a day set apart to recognize the gifts that someone brings to our lives and to let her or him know of our gratitude. Develop an attitude of gratitude. Say Something Nice; Be a Lifter. You will be glad that you did.

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168 Ways To Communicate Better Now Plus Two – 55 – 56 – 57

55. Be understanding.

Listen.

Empathize.

Be patient.  

56. Be useful.

Show up.

Offer assistance.

Be responsible.

Share your network.  

57. Build people up.

 Encourage others.

 Praise others sincerely.

 Wrecking balls are unattractive.

 Criticizing makes you look bad.

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Thankful Thursday – Mayor Joe Riley

On this Thankful Thursday, I am grateful for the gifts that Joe Riley brings to my life. Mayor Riley was very helpful to the Charleston Speech and Hearing Center while I was its President/CEO. He has also been very supportive of Say Something Nice Day. What really distinguishes the mayor is his vision for Charleston coupled with his extraordinary leadership abilities. Time after time he has been confronted with unrelenting challenges, but he has found a way to accomplish his goals. No one can doubt his love for this city. No one is indispensable, but frankly I see no one on the political horizon who is capable of providing his kind of enlightened leadership. Charleston has become a world class city. It was already one of the most beautiful cities in the world. It is an exciting place to live. Carol and I just missed hearing his speech at the Chautauqua Institution last year; however, judging by all the reports we received, it must have been wonderful. We read it in the Chautauqua Daily. The mayor has earned a well deserved national/international reputation. On this Thankful Thursday, I am grateful for all the gifts that Joe Riley brings to my life.

Thankful Thursday is a day set aside to recognize the importance of someone to our lives and to let her or him know of our gratitude. Develop an attitude of gratitude. Say Something Nice; Be a Lifter. You will be glad that you did.

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168 Ways To Communicate Better Now Plus Two – 52 – 53 – 54

52. Be timely.

Stay alert.

Stay informed.

Stay ready.  

53. Be tolerant.

Withhold judgment.

Be inclusive.

Don’t prejudge.  

54. Be trustworthy.

Be honest.

Be loyal.

Be dependable.

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