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Thankful Thursday – Jack Powers

            On this Thankful Thursday I am thankful for Jack Powers. Jack is a friend from Woodruff and Furman days. He and I have known each other for a lot of years, but got to know each other best during two years in Mr. Brissie’s speech class. Jack reminds me of that passage in the Bible about iron sharpening iron. Because Jack is good at everything he touches, he always causes me to want to get better at what I do. Jack is the embodiment of those values we learned growing up in a small town and on a cotton mill villages: hard work, honesty, loyalty, patriotism, devotion to family and to God. When Jack gives you his word, you can depend on it. Jack and Audrey are a great couple and great parents. I probably should add grandparents to that list. It seems that I have known Audrey and her parents forever. After graduating from Furman, Jack had a great career with Criovac Corporation. Jack remains a staunch Furman supporter and still goes to as many games as possible. He and Audrey have attended the Hamrick Lectures in Charleston and we get together each year for our high school class reunion. Jack and I share some social, political, and religious views that are not always the most popular. Our friendship has only grown stronger and richer over the years. On this Thankful Thursday, I am grateful for the presence and influence of Jack Powers in my life.

            Thankful Thursday is a day set apart to recognize someone who is important in your life. Let her or him know of your gratitude. Develop an attitude of gratitude. Say Something Nice; Be a Lifter. You will be glad that you did.

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Thankful Thursday – Dr. Marvin Cann

            On this Thankful Thursday, I am very thankful for Dr. Marvin Cann. Marvin and I have been friends from the moment we met more than fifty years ago at Furman University. Since that day when God decided that I needed a special friend in my life, our lives have been bound together. Marvin is the kind of friend I needed – calm, level headed, intelligent, rock solid and real. There is no pretense in Marvin, a gifted scholar and teacher with a great sense of humor. How he persuaded Kathy to marry him testifies to his inordinate gift of persuasion. When we get together all the years just seems to roll away and we are deep in conversation. I have long admired his keen intellect and his ability to discern what was taking place in any situation. He wrote the most interesting Ph. D. dissertation I have ever read including my own. He researched and wrote about Burnett Maybank when he was the major of Charleston. Carol and I always look forward to Marvin and Kathy’s annual trip to Kiawah. On this Thankful Thursday, I am thankful for the gift of Marvin Cann in my life.

            Thankful Thursday is set aside to recognize the gifts that a special person brings to your life. Develop an attitude of gratitude. Let him or her know how important he or she is to you. You will be glad that you did.

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Thankful Thursday – Margaret (Peg} Madsen Whitaker

            On this Thankful Thursday I am thankful for Peg Whitaker. Peg is a rare combination of educator, business woman, gardener and hostess. She grew up on John’s Island, South Carolina and graduated from St. John’s High School. After graduation from the College of Charleston, she met and married her Air Force husband and moved to New York City. She received her Master’s degree from New York State University and her Ph.D. from New York University. She became the director of curriculum in the Long Island, New York School System. After her artist husband died, she came back to John’s Island to take care of her mother and later restored her home with its magnificent views. She worked for a time with Tidelands Realty where I first met her. She and I served together on The Community of Readers organization, a group to promote reading in the public schools. Peg’s dinner parties brought together an interesting, lively cast of characters where food was wonderful but conversation was paramount. Peg is one of the most thoughtful people on the planet. She does not have E-mail so tell her about this post when you see her or call her. Of course, I am mailing her a copy.

            Thankful Thursday is a day set aside to say thank you to the people who have contributed to our lives. It is a day to let someone know how much you appreciate him or her. You will be glad that you did.

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Thankful Thursday – Martha and Don Gardner

            On this Thankful Thursday I am grateful for Martha and Don Gardner. They were two of the first people we met when we moved to Charleston and part of a very involved group of young professionals at FBC. They were members of the Sunday school class I led for many years. They would leave my class and go listen to Bob Boston at Circular Congregational Church. When LeAnn was born, the Sunday school class took Martha a pecan pie to the hospital. Don thought that she was the only daughter that was ever born. I think he probably still does. After Hugo Don cut up a huge tree in my backyard and helped haul it away. I worried that one false move with that chainsaw and his career as a dentist would be ended. Martha telephoned me at all different times of the day and night after Liz died to check on me. Her cheerful voice always lifted my sagging spirit. I could write about either of them individually, but they form a terrific couple and represent what family is all about. When I stop to count my blessings, Martha and Don Gardner come quickly to my mind.

            Thankful Thursday is a day set aside to recognize those who are important to our lives. Who are you thankful for today? Let him or her know of your gratitude. You will be glad that you did. Develop an attitude of gratitude. Say Something Nice; Be a Lifter.

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