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Trust – Key – 41

            Every worker says that he or she wants to work for someone that he or she trusts. Trust is the basis for all of our relationships. Trust more. You will be rewarded with deeper more meaningful relationships. Cultivate trust and work hard to maintain and strengthen it. Trust takes time to grow and mature, but it can be destroyed in an instant. There is no doubt that at some point your trust will be misplaced; however, the small number of times that will happen will be far outnumbered by the times your trust is well placed. Trusting is a far better way to live than not trusting. Dr. Ollie Backus, a renowned professor at the University of Alabama, often said, “If the attitude is straight, you can trust the behavior.”

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Trust – Key – 41

            Every worker says that he or she wants to work for someone that he or she trusts. Trust is the basis for all of our relationships. Trust more. You will be rewarded with deeper more meaningful relationships. Cultivate trust and work hard to maintain and strengthen it. Trust takes time to grow and mature, but it can be destroyed in an instant. There is no doubt that at some point your trust will be misplaced; however, the small number of times that will happen will be far outnumbered by the times your trust is well placed. Trusting is a far better way to live than not trusting. Dr. Ollie Backus, a renowned professor at the University of Alabama, often said, “If the attitude is straight, you can trust the behavior.”

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Don’t Gossip – Key 36

          Gossip is a thief.  It steals from the person who is its object. It steals from the person who spreads the gossip and it steals from the person who listens to it. Gossip is a murderer. It kills reputations. Stay away from gossip. Nothing ever good comes from gossip. How would you feel if the story you just heard was about you, your spouse, your son or daughter or your mother? Read, Words that Kill; Words that Heal. Gossip is one of the most costly problems in the workplace, churches and interpersonal relationships.

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Cultivate and Nourish Relationships – Key 27

Cultivate and Nourish Relationships

            Strong and varied relationships are essential for continued well being. Meet new people. Nurture the relationships that you already have. Renew old friendships. Long term friendships are the secret to well being especially as we mature. In order to make a friend you first have to be a friend. Put yourself in a position to meet new friends. Join a church, a social club, a dinner group, a book club, a bridge club or a dance club. You will not meet new friends in your den watching television. Volunteer with the United Way or some other worthy organization. Mingle. Research shows that people who have enduring relationships not only live

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